Stories

Parkinson’s disease became part of my family’s story through my father, Eric Arnold, who was diagnosed in January 2020 at the age of 65. Watching someone you love navigate Parkinson’s is something that changes you forever. It changes how you view time, strength, caregiving, and even the smallest moments that many people often take for granted. While Parkinson’s brought many difficult days, it also revealed the incredible power of love, resilience, community, and support.

My dad was an active, vibrant person who loved life and loved his family deeply. As his Parkinson’s progressed, I witnessed firsthand how unpredictable and challenging the disease can be, not only for the person diagnosed but for the entire family surrounding them. There were moments of frustration, exhaustion, sadness, and uncertainty. There were also moments filled with laughter, determination, grace, and deep appreciation for simply being together.

Becoming one of my father’s caregivers shaped me in ways I never expected. It taught me patience, compassion, advocacy, and the importance of showing up for the people you love, even when things are hard. It also taught me to never take any moment for granted with your loved ones, big or small, and to not take our lives and abilites and faculties for granted either. It also helped me understand how important organizations like the Indiana Parkinson Foundation truly are. Support systems, resources, and community all matter. No family should feel like they are navigating Parkinson’s alone.

One of the most meaningful ways I continue to honor my father is through participating in the Choose to Move 5K each year with “Ricky’s Runners.” What began as a way to support my dad and raise awareness has now become a tradition rooted in love, remembrance, and hope. Every year, family and friends show up beside me, walking in support of families impacted by Parkinson’s disease. Seeing that continued love and support reminds me that my father’s impact still lives on through all of us.

This year was especially meaningful because I was given the opportunity to speak directly to participants and families at the event. Sharing my story publicly was emotional, but also healing. I wanted others to know that caregivers matter too. Parkinson’s affects entire families, and caregivers often carry silent responsibilities while trying to remain strong for everyone else. Being able to connect with others who understand that journey was incredibly powerful.

The Indiana Parkinson Foundation has created spaces where families feel seen, supported, and connected. Through events like Choose to Move, they remind families that even in the midst of hardship, there can still be joy, movement, community, and hope. I am grateful to continue supporting their mission and to help raise awareness in honor of my father.

If there is one thing I hope people take away from my family’s story, it is this: Parkinson’s may change many things, but it cannot take away love, community, or the lasting impact someone leaves behind. My dad continues to inspire me every day, and I will keep showing up for this community in his honor.